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Searching to find purpose in your life? These two questions could finally give you the answer you've been looking for

By Tony Piper, January 17, 2023

Searching to find purpose in your life? These two questions could finally give you the answer you've been looking for.

I used to spend a lot of time thinking about the notion of "purpose". I (like many others) believed I was put on this earth to do something specific and that I wouldn't find fulfilment until I found and achieved whatever it was.

But the more I searched for my purpose, the less I saw and the more frustrated I became.

It was a bit like the kind of frustration you might feel if you kept looking for the sunrise while facing west.

Eventually I realised that no amount of facing west was going to show me what I wanted to see.

And then I heard the questions I wrote about on Day 3 being whispered in my ear:

When was the last time you felt the way you would like to feel for the rest of your life? What was that feeling?

For me it was a time when I felt curious, creative, playful, connected.

And then it hit me:

If this is my natural self, this who and how I was born to be.

And then I realised:

My purpose is simply to be my natural self as much as I can be.

And when I'm being that, everything I do will be fully aligned with my purpose.

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